I was in a two year relationship with a man (we'll call him Mike) who thought he possibly suffered from bi-polar disorder. He would get very moody and he would scream at me, say very hurtful things, and most of the time never apologize for what he had done. When I left him, he acted insane, threatening to kill himself and threatening to harm my house and my car. He became very depressed and has apparently now turned to drugs and alcohol to numb himself. I left Mike for another man, whom I have now been with for about 6 or 7 months. This man treats me so much better than Mike had, he is sweet, kind, caring and would never ever say hurtful things or scream at me. He really is great and I fell for him very fast. However, after nearly half a year, I have recently found myself missing Mike! I become very upset sometimes missing him and it's driving me crazy and eating away at me because I have absolutely NO ONE to talk to about these feelings because my family and friends absolutely hate Mike and would become extremely upset with me if I ever said I missed him. Do you have any idea why I could be missing him so much?? It just doesn't make sense, he was such a horrible person to me and I found someone who treats me great and I never missed Mike untill just recently, I don't understand these feelings.. Please could you give me your opinions on this?
