Regading selfish husband

My life[ since I have married] is in a state of turmoil. My husband and in laws are really selfish.They have shunned my personal growth, I had been highly qualified more than my husband but his sense of insecurity he never allowed me to work. they suppressed me but i want to put an end to it i want my growth and some happiness i have nothing no money no recognition no one but jealous in laws who want to enslave me.my hubby is a miser for me and my kids

That is horrible. Get out! There are organisations which help women out of horrible marriages. It is only husbands who beat their wifes, but your husband seems almost the same even though he does not abuse you physically.