My girlfriend of 10 years left me 2 days after christmas taking our 2 kids 4 and 3 yrs. Old. I cant get over her she moved in with snother man a week aftet leaving me and i still want her back this is killing me im tired og hurting. I almost just want to end my life because of this. What can i do to get over her? Can anyone give advise.
Assuming everything you've said is complete fact, the fact that she is your girlfriend and not your wife even though you had children together should have tipped you off about her lack of commitment. Unless of course there is a reason she left you. If she said anything about why she left, you could work from there, otherwise if it was truly just one of those "up and left for no reason" things, then I would chalk it up to her lack of commitment.
She probably just wanted to have the children and move on to another man who would support her. Obviously she was cheating on you, because what kind of man would just take a woman with two toddlers after less than a week?
So work from the following: She has a lack of commitment, she most likely cheated on you, and she will likely cheat on the other man she has right now.
If she left a reason, please post it.