Hey everyone..I was in your shoes but got help by asking a MAN for advice. Yes it was the best move for me. A man knows a mans feelings when it comes to cheating. Asking a man for advice to why u think you're man is cheating will give u anwers! This is some advice I got from a man that helped me and I hope it can help you.
You are the fish in the pond right now. He has his fishing pole just realing you in and throwing you back whenever he wants.
Realize none of this was your fault. you gotta respect yourself or other wise your giving him the go ahead to treat you like dirt.
He is going to do what he wants reguardless of you. If he wants to cheat, there is nothing you can do to stop him bc he will find a way. You have to stop lying to yourself. Stop telling yourself things you want to see happen. You have to prepare for what's coming. If my girl would've never left me when I cheated, I would still be cheating today, but since I realised what I lost, I earned her back and changed. Start telling yourself the truth. Stop lying to yourself and saying "he loves me, he can change" instead Repeat things like "I will stop loving him, I'm going to leave him and find better, he doesn't love me" and you will see how repeatition works!! Your brain will start to believe it. Cry if you have to whenever you have to but DO NOT let him see you hurt. Act like you're ok. Men love to see a woman hurt bc it means to them they still have control. Show him who is in control! Ask men for advice NOT woman...men and women think differently and once he sees your gone he will realize what he had! When you start to feel sad " don't be sad its over, be happy it even happened!" That should make u feel better. That and telling yourself the truth by repeating things like "I will move on, I'm no ones rag doll, I always deserved better, there's so many other men out here, he doesn't love me and I will find someone who will!!"
