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KOM2002 (sad)  Re: My boyfriend is cheating on me and i dont know what to do

Re: My boyfriend is cheating on me and i dont know what to do (Reply to: 129912 from )
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Date: Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:04:58 +0200
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I have found through the years that for some reason, after a relationship has lasted years, that if a woman opens her body to a man they WILL NOT SAY NO! It is like they feel it is their responcibilty to make this woman happy, if it werent they wouldn't be asking him right? This idea could not be more wrong, but it is what happens, a lot of the time. It is disgusting, that all of these people have been hurt like this, me, my friends, you and all the the hundreds probably thousands of people who get cheated on every night! My bf and I have been together for 6 years and have a 3 year old daughter. I left town to take my older daughter to a Taylor Swift concert, we were gone for one night, while he stayed home with our 3 year old daughter. In that 24 hours he met up with an old fling, slept with her then continued to talk to her for two weeks before I found out. When I did find out he lied over and over, until I printed out the truth and got his old fling on the phone to make him tell the truth. He was sending her texts, "I love you I never knew you loved me too, if I could turn back time to be with you I would!" We are talking really hurtful things for me to find. She was sending him naked pics and then he was sending them to his friends showing off what he had "DONE". AT first he said it was just a kiss, then to making out, then to touching, then finally the truth came out. WHY LIE? It only makes matters worse, because now I feel like he will always lie ot me, and even if I tried to make things work for the kids, there is always this little voice saying he is lying again, dont trust him, he wont tell you the truth. So now I feel like I am a private detective, always trying to find out what he is lying about now, even if there are no lies! SO now I have come to the truth of my heart, and I hope others can find this in themselves to help mend their heart. No matter how hard you try this person you love so much will never love you as much as you love them! And in some cases you knew this feeling before they cheated, almost like you knew it was coming because the love wasnt the same as it was before right! You have to deal with the pain of being alone to find someone new to feel the love again, because it is easier to buy a new candle then to rewax the one you got! It looks better, smells fresh, and hasnt hurt you yet! Be careful about your selections dont just jump into the first persons life that you meet. Watch a few movies like P.S. I love you and you will see there is real true love out there you just have to find it and no it is not hiding in a bad relationship. It took me a long time to come to this realization, because me too, I loved David with all my heart, but when I look at him he is not the same David I fell in love with, and it will never be the same again. I think that is the key, once you know in your heart that the love you once had will never be the same again, then and only then will you have the determination to find new love one day! On another note, drugs make you think that they help, but they really dont. If you get caught you could lose your job, and if it is put on your permanent record you can kiss your professional life goodbye. There are so many people alive looking for work that havent been caught doing drugs or didnt do them in the first place that would not have an incriminating record, and they would be offered a job before you. The last thing you want is to work at Taco Bell, Jack in the Box or McDonalds for the rest of your life! So leave him, and the drugs will leave and maybe, just maybe youll find someone who loves you as much as you love them. But you'll never know if you stay there with him and the drugs. And yes you are right your life can get worse, so now the question is how are you going to make yourself happy again??? CAUSE HE IS NOT GOING TO MAKE THE CUT ANYMORE HUNNY!!!!!!

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