I read these stories and felt like we were all talking about my boyfriend. I think men fall into the trap of always wanting more and don't realize that they are leaving a good woman for a lesser one. My man and I have been together for 5 years. I stood by him through his roughest times without questions and I have always been the breadwinner, and never through it in his face that I make the money and he moved into my house. I encouraged and lifted him up. Then I find out that he has been cheating on me with a DOG she is ugly, poor and has 3 kids by 3 guys all by the time she was 25. I am still dealing with all the hurt and pain I mean the fact is he would be with her all day telling her that he loved her and then come home to me at night and say that he loved me. I got suspicious a few months ago and started to withdraw and he noticed but never changed his ways. It is compounded by the fact that when we got together I told him about my trust issues with men and how a past boyfriend had hit me and emotionally hurt me. I will give him credit for never being violent or even yelling at me in that regard he always treated me like a princess, but the hurt he has caused is compouned because he lied and he knew that I had been to hell and back to get to the point where I could trust him when he said he loved me and now it seems like i would have been better off just staying where i was not trusting men. The only blessing is that we don't have kids and I never relied on him financially so us ending will be easier to deal with. I just don't know if I will ever be able to trust a man to say they love me because love shouldn't hurt like this and if he valued me as a friend he would have told me that he was seeing someone else. I wish you luck (all of you) may we find the happiness we deserve...............
