Thank you again. My friends have been pushing me to say something to her like to get her to back off, but I'm hesitant for those exact reasons. However, I don't think that he is able to see *not yet anyways, what she is really doing. I hope he does soon. I do not want this to come down to a "her or me" situation, though I know he would pick me, but I would always wonder who he is texting and IMing and if it was her or not. He is a good guy and I no longer have that gut feeling, but I wish this girl would shrivle up and die. mean - I know, but seriously. Thanks!