I was with this guy for a long time. Head over heels in love, never had a clue thigns were bad. We lived together and everything. He gave me a ring. He had a DUI so I dropped him off at jail. The next day I talk to his other girlfriend. The one who everynight when I work until 11, he has over until 10. They had sex on my bed everynight an hour before i got home and did the same thing. He had a bank account with her, he clamed the clothes in the closet were his ex and she needed to bring boxes to pack up all her shit. He would clear out everyhting in the bathroom everyday before she came over. Every night when he was with the guys, he was screwing her. The nights he asked me if i would cheat on him and i promised my life i wouldnt, and he did too, he was. She had plane tickets with his name on them for Christmas time, she gave him tons of money, which I dont even know what he did with. I find out from her he has a record for spousal abuse. I could go on and on. Guys are fucked up in the brain. I dont understand it and never will. I sit trying to figure out how someone could do something like this and just cant. I still dont understand hwo a human being could be so cruel and uncaring. I treated him like a freaking king and loved him with all my heart, and yet get nothing put pain, anger, and hurt in return. All i have to say is it sucks and i am in the process of moving my things out. I talked to the girl and i know she is lying about somethings, so i am jsut so lost of why the hell people cant just tell the truth and admit they fucked up. All i want is the truth so i can move on, but he doesnt even have the balls to do that.