This is the first time in the almost 5 years of my relationship that I am writing this for other eyes to see, but I think writing brings me comfort. Like each of you, I am in a similiar situation with someone who cheats, even though he said he cheated in the past. I found out, the first and devastating time, when I read his text 2 years ago. He too proposed and I accepted thinking things will change. Anyway, ever since finding out he cheated, I changed. I went from not texting him, ok with seeing him 1ce a week to texting him like crazy,and being called a nag because I was afraid he was still cheating, and was angry when he ignored me. Of course, he does not understand my reasons and blames me for being "annoying" even though it is to tell him I do not like what he is doing to me. Well now after that mad session of texting him, I text him sometimes, but those sometimes are due to my anger towards his not answering when I call (as usual). My main question is how do I stop texting him period? It's like it's grown in me to vent via the cell. I have calmed down a great deal, but I still feel blah because I believe he is still messing around. There so much more I can say, but if I type everything they will shut this site down lol. Ladies (and gents if you read this) what can i do to get my mind off of wanting to even communicate with him? I never cheated so that's not an option lol. I just don't want to be called a nag because I text my feelings, especially when I know I am not a nag. I've witnessed nags in my lifetime (like the way my sis-in-law treats my brother who is a good man).
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Today's date: Tue, 19 Oct 2021 21:22:33 +0200