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reply Re: my boyfriend is cheating on me but I can't leave him , 1A183DE83AA94216FEB9DFCBB68E0DCC , 17 Feb 2012 04:23
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Re: my boyfriend is cheating on me but I can't leave him (Reply to: 128248 from desperatelystupidsusan )
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Date: Sun, 14 Sep 2008 21:25:36 +0200
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DesperatelySusan and ChloeX, as it seems the men that we love unfortunately are cheaters. Both of your relationship is a mirror of my own. I'm engaged to my bf and he has always cheated before the engagement and to this day after. i accepted the proposal thinking that the pass 3yrs of cheating would be over...a month later he proved me wrong; then a month after that ect... today i find myself here, courtesy of GOOGLE. He cheats with different women but 1 in particular he keeps cheating with. I always told MYSELF he didnt really love her b/c he would be with her (we live together as well) if he did,right..no! wrong. this last occurrence has pushed me over the edge, it was just me finding an email, the usual cheating thing but i feel different now b/c though he is here Im done CONVINCING MYSELF that he doesnt love her. Ladies the hardest thing for me to do is to let go, the second hardest was for me to realize and accept that loves someone else ALSO, though he loves me; at this point it's not good enough. Why should WE accept a shared love? Why don't we feel that someone can love us totally? Though a man may vary well cheat there is a difference in CHEATERS. a guy may cheat but HELL will freeze over before he is caught again (Susan)he's trying and he may even break it off with (who ever the slut is)if he detects you are closing in on it. Then there is the guy who cheats and cheats sloppy and then has nothing but "REASONS WHY" he cheats (though he's NEVER been faithful - MY BF)when he is caught. Chloe, I and the women he was/is seeing talked as well and she loves him; as with you my bf did the same "made her feel just as special as I felt". though she said she was DONE with him, she never was and never intended to be, she really hoped that the discovery would force me out, and i probably hoped the same. The truth is he's not going to leave me for her b/c he can simply cheat and makeup cheat and makeup on both ends. We both are/have been accepting of it, she even called me once and said "it wasnt even YOU i caught him with" as if that should make it better, that also told me (something he has always known)she will be willing waiting for him to comfort her and love her whenever he is available to do so(that is when he's NOT loving me). Ladies I've DECIDED that I don't want to be loved like this anymore...it's NOT normal. I have brothers that love their wives dearly and 1 or 2 of them have cheated! but there wives have never felt less LOVED. i am preparing myelf for the night cries, I think I'm well prepared for the pain, believe me ladies with all the cheating YOU HAVE ALREADY ENDURED the pain. Also prepared MYSELF to know that missing him, the tears and pain will only last for a little while and visioning where i will be mentally after I'm over it is the only thing that is giving me comfort and the determination to end this. i will never bind myself again to a MAN I KNOW WILL CHEAT. forget thinking "he's a good guy and he will stop". Ladies many men cheat PHYSICALLY but not all cheat EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY. and HE IS never break it off you, please believe me, but dont keep setting yourself up for emotional desperately and pain. I'M GOING TO HANG OUT WITH MY GIRLS, MY FAMILY AND ANYONE ELSE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO GET ME MOVIN :) Ladies it took a lot for me get to this point and will all being said here and ANYWHERE for that matter, you will only END it when your heart tells YOU its time :(, my WILL has become stronger than the beat my heart has for him. PEACE

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