I am also in love with a married man. His wife is military, she leaving for Iraq soon. we have been dating for almost a year now and he's even great with my kids, they have two children as well. The thing is that she called me last week and wanted to know what was going on between us and I lied. How can something so real be a lie. They fight and argue all the time but he wont leave. He shares my bed during the day and hers at night. i think. he says he sleeps on the couch. im not there so I dont know. i do know that i love him and keep telling myself that i did the right thing by not telling her. i want to be with him but not b/c she threw him out for having an affair. i want him to leave on his own will then i would be more acceptn of it. but now that she going to iraq she will have given us the opportunity to make our relationship stronger.
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