I find myslef in a dilemma and would dearly appreciate your advice in this matter. I shoudl forwarn you that this may seem like a matter
below the dignity of some but please hear me out. I am a happily married man for almost 10 years with 3 children. I have never been unfaithful to my wife and I love her dearly. I have had a troubled childhood with details I never wish to discuss which I have not
shared with my wife. I have been involved in dispicable acts for a long time. Since my early years as far as I can remember I have indulged in wearing female underwear and clothing for arousal and masturbating. I continued this act for a long time even into my marriage years and funnily though have never used my wife's attire. I have stopped
these acts for many years and have devoted myself to religion and family. However it seems that someone else has found out about my sick act and I am afriad that they will approach my wife and destroy our marriage. This person being a family member from whom I am guilty of taking her personal items. Now I know I have no one else but myslef to blame but I do not wish to hurt my wife and I already fear the punishment in wait for me from God. Should I tell
my wife now and avoid her finding out some other way or leave it be? I have not confronted this other person and neither has she talked to me about it except hinting in our presence about men who
do these things. I have spoken to a psychologist who suggests I wait a while. Please advise.
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