Personality related, moral dillema

why is it that i am always judgemental about what to do and what not but end up doing all the wrong things? why often do i feel that i am a failure? why do i often get stressed up and defocused? i really cannot take the pressures of my life and feel every thing is going against me. i need a friend i dont get him/her.

It is usually easier to do the wrong thing than the right thing. But if you do so, you feel like a failure afterwards. Read about good and bad choices. Use this to help you to choose the right way in life.

Lie down when you feel stressed and defocused. When you get an idea what to do, jump up and do it immediately. Then you will have flow in your daily life.

See a cognitive psychotherapist or buy a book about positive thinking. You are the one who is putting you down, not other people.