Relationship

Respected sir/madam,

I finished my graduation some six months back. i am having a steady relationship for the past two years.He is a very determined person and was very affectionate towards me, of late he has immersed himself very much into his career and he always says you are of second importance to me and i want to settle in life first. i missed him a lot cos he was not in constant contact with me (he is in a different city too) and now i met a guy who loves me very much and says he wants to marry me and he values me very much, i like this guy but i don think i love him. i don't know how to handle this situation, sometimes i feel my boy friend is not very caring and when he says i am of second importance to him and this new guy says i mean everything to him, i get disturbed. i couldn decide the right thing.

please help me with this. i feel this is very delicate and i am not strong enough to jump in to any decisions.

I would not stay with a man who said that I was of second importance to him. But it is your life and you have to decide.