Hello. I guess no one can really say what a person or what the OW should do. We cannot tell them to leave or run away from their MM because each situation is different from each other. Sometimes the MM leaves the wife and live happily ever after with the OW. Some or most men are pigs and they don't have enough courage to tell the wife and chicken out in the end. I will say that Whatever happens or whatever the outcome the relationship will be, we should never have regrets because at one point of our life we became truly happy. I want to share the song of Greenday; Here goes:
Another turning point a fork stuck on the road
Time grabs you by the wrist
And directs you where to go
So make the best of this test and don't ask why
It's not a question but a lesson learned in time
It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life
So take the photographs and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good times
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For What it's worth It was worth all the while
ITS SOMEHING UNPREDICTABLE
BUT IN THE END IS RIGHT
I HAD THE TIME OF MY LIFE
Get it.. No regrets. Be positive. What is important is that we have love. As the saying goes. It is better to have loved and get hurt than never to have love at all.
Take care. Cheers..