Hi - my husband has a very low sex drive - age is not on our side, and we want to and are trying for children, but not often enough or at the right time. He's had medical tests and everything is fine. When we go on holiday, we are able to have sex more as he can relax, but when at home, his work stresses him out a lot and he works very long hours, and therefore can never successfully have sex. It's frustrating for both of us since he is affectionate in every other way and we desperatly want children.