Hello I'm 21 years old and I have never had an organsm, or at least not that I know. I used to think I did until I talked to my boyfriend and he described what a real orgasm is like. In the past, when I masturbated I would get a really good feeling on my genitals and after a minute or two I would start having contractions. They were not too strong, but I felt really good during and afterwards. I thought I was having an orgasm. But my boyfriend who has had other sexual partners described to me an orgasm as strong body contractions, a suddent hot rush, face blushing, and a secretion of liquids, he also said that it only last seconds and once it's over a girl can't have intercourse right away. We have been having sex for 5 months and I have never got an orgasm with him even if we try different possitions. Have I ever had an orgasm based on what I told you? And if not, is there anything wrong with me? My interest in masturbation decreased to zero after my boyfriend brought up the orgasm subject and I realized that I had never had one. I've been thinking ever since that there is something wrong with me and now I don't even enjoy sex as much because I'm thinkking about "why isn't it happening?" What can I do? Should I visist a doctor? Please reply.
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14 Nov 2007 06:09
