I met a man last summer, we hit it off very well, intellectual and physical chem. He was recently separated, wife lives far away. He was dating someone for a few mos, they broke up, we met. After 2 dates, he said he was not over his girlfriend, and that he was sorry. We met up a few mos later, she had broken up with him 2 mos previously, chem was still there, but he said still not ready. We keep running into each other, and we gravitate to each other in social situations. Can't seem to shake the chemistry. What to do?