i recently got engaged to my boyfriend of 6 years. just before we got engaged, i had discovered that he had cheated on me 2 years back with another girl from his college which went on for about 3 months. i was told that it ended but not told how and i still dont have that figured out. while i got to know of this and am confronting him over the phone (he is stationed in another city), i discover later that there was another woman in his house who he was sleeping with at that very moment. that affair lasted about 5 weeks and ended only when i found out.
i thought i had it all figured out and that i trusted him to never do something like this again to me adn to our relationship and he showed keen interest in working our relationship out. post this, i got engaged to him. now, i am at a juncture where i keep wondering if his infidelity was restricted to only these 2 or were there others? in that case, did i make the right decision of getting engaged to him & eventually get married to him? will i be able to trust him ever again? at any time during the day, i keep getting thoughts of what he has done and sometimes the ghory details of his affairs flash through my mind, consequently ruining the rest of my day, at work, at home, with friends, everywhere!
would you be able to help me as to how to work this relationship coz i want to work it out and so does he.