Spousal problems

My wife goes to class on wednesday nights for her crimminal justice class. She calls me and said she was done early can she go tanning afterwards. I answered yes that i did not care if she went. She came home "in the mood" and i did not feel like it. I said some things that she said "hurt". Example(advised her that she is "snatchy") That I did not want to be around that. She asked me why we were not intimate anymore again i answered her the same because she is snatchy. She said that she was hurt by this comment and she decided to "please herself" and then rolled over went to sleep. What do I do to fix this problem? THanks

Making love should only take place when two people are in the mood at the same time. But it is never right to hurt your partners feelings. Rather say something like: I love you, but I am too tired tonight.