I am currently married and only have been for 2 years. When I firsdt met my husbadn, he was into drugs and drinking. We soon after that had a baby and he stopped doing all the bad things. I dont do those things and never have. My family is my life. But then a year ago, he relapsed and I found out. I kicked him out of the house, and gave his STRICT rules if he came back. He would go to couseling, drop the friends that are a bad influence, and let me randomly drug test him if I ever feel he is doing it again.
Just recently he has been getting into trouble again, nit with the law, but with his lies. He lies to me about everything. I have to doubt everything that he tells me. He lies about really big things and Thank GOD I have found alot of them out or caught him red handed. I love him and so do our children, but I feel like he will never stop lieing. I finally talked to him about it in detail yesterday and he was not very receptive. He left and went to a druggy buddy's house and came home trashed. What do I do? He is really hurting me and I am so tired of being lied to and decieved.
People do not change their personality. Women, who want good husbands, should avoid men who are into drugs and drinking and have trouble with the law.