Dear Ms Palme,
I am in a relationship with an older man, he loves me completely and unconditionally but I am not happy, I don't love him the same way. This relationship is secret for everyone, age difference is not accepted by my friends and family. I tried having a relationship with another guy of my age which hasn't quite ended since he wants me back. I don't want to be with that guy either since he is not treating me nicely. The only thing that I am so worried is hurting my boyfriend, since I hurt him too much by breaking up and having a relationship with this younger guy...while whole time I actually wanted someone third, someone who would be nice towards me but of my own age. I have no job, I am living far away from my homeland, I have no friends, I rarely see my family since I am lying too much to them - can't face them. I have a high education, hoping for a job. My days are the same, they have been for almost a year, I am so deperate for getting out of this vicious circle. What to do? Where to go? Please help...
Sincerely yours
Tanja