Re: im in love with a married man

The thing that is ridiculous is when the man bullshits you completely and tells you--flat out--that he is single and has never been married. I gave him a thick piece of my mind as soon as I found out the truth.

But this is infuriating:

"For women who were duped into the affairs unknowingly, the same applies. You are still considering pursuing feelings that he will never return and is only going to add to your low self-esteem that you must have if you are contemplating how you are going to base your self-worth on men who give crumbs - not love and committment. You need to ask yourselves ' so what kind of woman does this man respect?'. - Help yourselves and don't be duped any further."

First of all, not well written. I hope this cryptically written piece is actually addressing women who are considering continuing the affair after they find out the truth.

I'm just saying: imagine the pain of finding out the truth after he has told you that you are the one and he's falling in love with you. And then you find out he's married. Bastards. How can they?