Dating someone 3 years - not living together - he only allows intimacy when he wants it - turns me down constantly if I want it..
Today on the phone before work he stated he had to go ( I wake him up by phone not living with him) since he had to please himself.(using polite words here - he used the crude words -J.O.)
Never in my life have I had a man say that to me - what does this mean in our relationship?