Well, i am 26 yr old virgin guy and am planning to get married soon. My problem is i am already feeling nervous about the whole thing, especially with regards to sex. I fear that i might not be able to perform on bed. In past i have just withdrawn myself from having a sexual intercourse as i think i wouldn't be strong enough to enter in to my partner and think that it requires quite a strong tool like penis to actually get the thing done. I don't think i have something strong enough like that. I don't want to feel ashamed of not being able to do what i am supposed to. Your advice will be very helpful on this.
A woman wants to be satisfied. This is done much better with your hand than by intercourse. Caress your bride's clitoris with your hand until she reaches orgasm. Use lubrication gel from the pharmacy if she is dry. Most women do not get satisfied during intercourse as clitoris is not stimulated in the right way.