My wife's past

2 days before marriage my wife asked me when was the first time i had sex - then she told me about her age at first time ( 28 ) - she said " i even remember the day ! month & day.i asked why u remember.she said coz it 's a special moment for every girl & all girls remember it.i felt soo sick..... once later i was wearing a thick condom & i didn't feel her then i got our without ejaculation & asked her to finish me by hand...she said.this is so starnge.i never had this trouble with any of my previous boy friends..! they all finished inside me...!!!!!!! i felt even a lot more sicker.on the wedding day.i prepared a song.for a month" everything i do... / Bryan adams... she knew.i took her for the dance when an old friend asked her for the dance & she left me & danced with him...!!!! she waore exposed wedding dres ( that showed all almost all her breasts - we previously chose modest elegant ones... but she changed...) ..that man she danced with came to me telling me" u have a very sexy wife".!! he also told me & her in fron of his wife" we used to be close friends & we want you to be our close friend too"....!!! on the video i saw him kicking her on ass twice in a group family dance.... lately... another person told me that in Romania ( she is Romanian ).. no man can dance with wife unless he takes a permission from the husband... & she should have told him " that dance is special for my husband & u can ask him for the next if u want" ...she denied that this is the cutoms & said i couldn't refuse........ she is driving me crazy & guess what.she says that all are misundersatnding & all are my fault & i have to reviw my position.......???????!!!!!!!! any comment.........?

It is a mistake to talk about your former boyfriends if you have a jealous husband. Tell your wife about your feelings and ask her to be considerate. If your jealousy gets to the point that she gets unhappy about it, you will need professional help with SSRI medicine or psychotherapy.