I am dating a married man who lives in another state. The twist is that im married myself. We met almost two years ago when i lived in the same state that he is in now. Before meeting me and my family planned to move out of state so i kept up with my plans. I often travel to see him although sometimes i regret it. I feel so bad leaving my family to run off and see this man that i know is probably seeing other people in his hometown anyway. Ive tried so many times to leave him alone but it is very hard to do. I just want to say that if you are the other woman i know how stressful it can be. I have my own family and i still get stressed out about the situation. A month or so ago i thought i was pregnant and of course i shared this with both my husband and the other man. Of course the other man didnt want to own up to anything. That event made me realize what i really meant to him. He says all these things but actually means something else. I am starting to see him in a different light although i should stop dealing with him i still continue. I know that at some point i will get him completly out of my system,i just hope that i dont lose my family in the process.