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reply ** Re: I am bothered by my boyfriend looking at porn , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 17 Nov 2006 08:49
question I am bothered by my boyfriend looking at porn , ****** , 17 Nov 2006 00:38
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I am bothered by my boyfriend looking at porn
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Date: Fri, 17 Nov 2006 00:38:04 +0100
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Hello,
For about 6 years my boyfriend had some emotional problems and he used to visit prostitutes quite often.
We are together for about 8 months and he says he stopped it since then.
However, a few times he shows me internet sites with naked women, and I explained to him that I am really bothered with this.
he promised he will stop this in front of me. Last night we were in a really good mood and I expressed him my wish to make love. Before I get into bed I saw him again looking in a magazine that "happened" to have a poster with a naked woman. He says he was reading an article and it happened to be there.
I was very angry (it was not the first time he was seeing this kind of articles) and I torn the page.
I would like to know who is wrong?
Thank you
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** Re: I am bothered by my boyfriend looking at porn (Reply to: 86810 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Fri, 17 Nov 2006 08:49:37 +0100
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Most men have looked at pornography and most women are against it. You need to find a solution that suits you. One solution would be that if your husband ever looks at pornography, he would be very discrete, so you will not know about it. Of course you can leave your boyfriend or he can promise you something that he might not be able to live up to.

Read about men and porn.

Read about conflict resolution.




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