Hi
My husband cheated and I forgave him, however I can't get past it. My husband was everything to me. When he cheated I was upset and vulnerable. Six months later I cheated with this guy. I slept with him about three times. I am afraid that my husband will find out and it will destroy our marriage. I preach to him that honesty is the best policy and now I am a hypocrite. I do not want him to find out the way i found out, so my question to you....
Should I confess or not?
If so, should I give detail about who where and when because he did. Please help me
We learn from childhood to always be honest. But having seen so many marriages been destroyed by telling details about former lovers, I seriously question if honesty is always best.
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