For quite some time ive had a fear of intimacy, although i did not realize it until recently. I used to think it was depression, SAD, bi-polar disorder etc. But more recently ive discovered that i am not alone and that lots of other people have the same problem that i do (wheew!). I am 20 years old and im the only one i know who is still a virgin. Ive never had a serious relationship with a girl and alot of my friends get the impression that im gay. This is very frustrating, but im too afraid to tell them why i avoid these situations. Without going into detail about my past, all the symptoms/causes match almost perfectly with my past. What i would like to know is, what "treatments" or even "cures" are out there that could help me defeat this problem? What type of doctor should i see? Ive read both sex therapists and psychologists(psychiatrists? whatever...) can diagnose and help conquor the problem. Any help is appreciated, thanks.