Having more than one lover

hi this is neelam.iam married since 5 yrs and i have one kid. my married life is going well. my hubby never finds times to me. he is always busy in his work, even sundays also. i work as a financial advisor i spend time in chatting so there i found a guy from my country but he stays in other country on his job . he is also married with one kid. we are chatting since 6 months. when i chat with i feel my heart has become very free. i share each and everything to him. he always cares for me. and onemore we dont want loose our own family. we would like to be in this way only. sometimes he even calls me. actually the thing is he wants to meet me.even iam intrested to meet him. but iam scared to meet him.please tell wheather is it ok to meet him or not.

You will have to ask your partners whether it is OK for you to meet each other, or if they prefer to divorce you, if you meet somebody else.