My husband looks at other women and I do not have much interest in sex anymore

My husband and I have been married for three years. I cannot stand him looking at other women even if they are naked, it really upsets me. He does it and lies about and he has even talked to other women and been on sites that are for hooking up with other people. I was wondering why he does this, I cannot talk to him about it because he gets mad and defensive. I feel as though he is cheating, but he does not yet he denies doing it. We have received many viruses because of it he blames it on a game he plays. He thinks I am cheating because I do not have much interest in sex anymore and am upset alot. Do you consider this cheating or is he just a perv? We were wathing divorce court and the man was talking to other women in letters and saying sexual things, my husband said that was cheating, but just talking isn't unless it is sexual, but I have read some emails he wrote to women and they were sexual. Should I be worried? Are these signs of cheating?

What reasons do you have to stay with your husband? From your description, you sound very incompatible to each other.

Do not give up your own life for your family. Your also need friends and interests. Studying to get an interesting occupation would do you good and you would have less time to worry about your husband. Also try to find a good family councellor.