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reply ** Re: Unhappiness with husband , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 22 Oct 2006 22:18
question Unhappiness with husband , ****** , 22 Oct 2006 10:35
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Unhappiness with husband
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Date: Sun, 22 Oct 2006 10:35:26 +0200
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my husband has had a very bad academic career.he had to repeat one year at college because of bad grades.he never took studies seriously while at college.after getting married to me, he became more serious towards his studies. he gave USMLE exam twice but failed both times. he spent two years preparing for these tests. after that, he did one year training at a local hospital. it has been 5 months since his training is over but he has not decided anything for himself till now. he decides to do one thing and changes his mind the next week. he spends all day indulging in useless time-passing activities. these days he talks about giving MRCPCH exam. when i ask him to do something useful, to study, his mood becomes very harsh. he says things like "GET LOST", "GET OUT", "I WILL STUDY WHEN I FEEL LIKE" to me. i feel very angry at his life style. i dont like to have a stay-at-home husband. i have always supported him in his failures but i dont like him NOT trying at all!!!i have talked to him about it several times, but he just doesnt understand. i feel angry,unhappy and frustrated. our domestic enviornment is tense most of the time. tell me what can i do?
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sun, 22 Oct 2006 22:18:29 +0200
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I am afraid your husband is a hopeless case when it comes to studying. If you want an academic career, you have to work very hard. Start studying yourself amd leave your husband, if you cannot accept him the way he is.



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