hi i'm from east africa. if my memories serve me right i was molested while i was 6 years old by a nany who was meant to look after me. this act has had a tremendous effect on my life since then. for reasons i cannot tell myself i tend to prefer older women that are at least 2 to 3 years. this is affecting my sex life as many of my moves to have such a relationship end up in desaster. successive rejection are having an inferior emoton set up on me. the other thing is that i expect women to hit on me rather than the other way round. help please.