Can only get orgasm using a vibrator

Hi,

I'm female, 25 yrs old. I have sex with my boyfriends but rarely have an orgasm (may be only five times in the past 7 years). So i do masterbastion and get orgasm by using the vibrator touching the external area of vagina (never put inside). I've never used my finger to masterbating myself. My current boyfriend has been trying to help me by using his mouth, hands (for about 20 mins) before intercourse sex. But i haven't had the orgasm with him. And everytime we have sex, i have to use the vibrator in the end to help myself. I'm enjoy the sex with him but still i'm wondering if something's wrong with me.

Can my body get used to with orgasm by using the vibrator so i'm not able to have with the real sex?

Can you recommend any website providing the information about how to get orgasm in female?

If i use the vibrator in front of my boyfriend, will it destroy our relationship?


Thank you

It is wonderful that you have found a way to reach orgasm. Just accept it the way it is. Everyone is different, you have found what works for you. Maybe you can teach your boyfriend to use the vibrator on you, in order to make it more mutual?