My guy has a 18 year old son that he had removed from his mothers custidy when he was 14. Since then the boy had made his life hell rebelling against school, being in trouble with the law, not to speek of constant lieing, and being thrown out of alternative education. Now at 18 he refuses to go to adult education, no job, had stretched his ears till no one wants to hire him. The kid stinks, seldom bathes, eats only chips, pop, soup, potatoes, and chicken, lies, steals from his father, promises his dad what ever he wants to hear, sleeps till 3pm, is out till 4-5am. Though all the arguments about get a job and go back to school... its always tomarrow.. I'm sorry ... and dear ol dad keeps believing him forking out money for the kids pipe dreams. My point is cut him off.. OK you can feed him and put a roof over his head .. but CUT OFF all money! I pay the rent and dad pays all the untilities, food, and part of my gas. Dad is going nowhere forfeting his retirment money, drives a piece of crap car all so this son of his can suck off him for cigarettes, pot, and run with friends that have a dead end lifestyle. IS there any thing I can do to make DEAR OL dad see the light?