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KOM2002 (question)  How do I rebuild this friendship?

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reply Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 11 Sep 2006 19:22
reply Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 11 Sep 2006 07:44
reply Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 07 Sep 2006 05:34
reply ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 06 Sep 2006 05:39
question How do I rebuild this friendship? , ****** , 05 Sep 2006 18:54
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How do I rebuild this friendship?
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Date: Tue, 5 Sep 2006 18:54:03 +0200
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I have a friend/colleague who has helped me through a traumatic experience, however in that process I was unable to be a good friend/colleague to them. As a result, I have hurt them and they have hurt me as well. In trying to let the person know that "they do not realize how much they have hurt me", I feel that statement has made them shut me out. I feel the person has done a lot for me and probably doesn't understand how they could hurt me.

I feel I need to respect their feeling by giving them space and respecting things they have told me in the past to show that I am a different person and that was then. My question is "how do I rebuild this friendship if the person does not wish to communicate"?
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** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? (Reply to: 80013 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Wed, 6 Sep 2006 05:39:31 +0200
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If you want to stay friends with people it is unfortunately not the right thing to say: You do not realize how much you have hurt me, as that will definitely end the relation. Ask for forgiveness and send them a list of all the good things they have done to you. Hopefully that will help.



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Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? (Reply to: 80063 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 7 Sep 2006 05:34:33 +0200
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Good luck!



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Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? (Reply to: 80168 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Mon, 11 Sep 2006 07:44:11 +0200
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If they do not want to communicate with you, you will have to find other friends. Learn from your experiences and do not repeat your mistakes.



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Re: ** Re: How do I rebuild this friendship? (Reply to: 80535 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Mon, 11 Sep 2006 19:22:26 +0200
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Do your best. Do not give up!




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