I am 24 years old male, and I am still a virgin. Since 13 I have been mainly attracted to persons of the same sex, however I had relationships with girls a couple of times but with no sexual contact, because of lack of sexual arousal.
Over time, this situtation have had an major impact on every aspect of my life, and I can't postpone its solution any further. Adopting a homosexual way of life is very diffcult for me for various resons,and its something I don't want to do anyway.
So here is my question: is there any way for me to be more attracted to women? Any suggestions for overcoming my first time anxiaty and fear of being with women?
No, you will have to accept that you are attracted to men. You can live without sex if you wish, but you will never be sexually attracted to women.