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How do I rebuild this friendship?
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Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
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11 Sep 2006 19:22
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Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
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11 Sep 2006 07:44
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Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
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07 Sep 2006 05:34
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06 Sep 2006 05:39
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How do I rebuild this friendship?
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05 Sep 2006 18:54
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How do I rebuild this friendship?
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Date: Tue, 5 Sep 2006 18:54:03 +0200
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I have a friend/colleague who has helped me through a traumatic experience, however in that process I was unable to be a good friend/colleague to them. As a result, I have hurt them and they have hurt me as well. In trying to let the person know that "they do not realize how much they have hurt me", I feel that statement has made them shut me out. I feel the person has done a lot for me and probably doesn't understand how they could hurt me.
I feel I need to respect their feeling by giving them space and respecting things they have told me in the past to show that I am a different person and that was then. My question is "how do I rebuild this friendship if the person does not wish to communicate"?
If you want to stay friends with people it is unfortunately not the right thing to say: You do not realize how much you have hurt me, as that will definitely end the relation. Ask for forgiveness and send them a list of all the good things they have done to you. Hopefully that will help.
Good luck!
If they do not want to communicate with you, you will have to find other friends. Learn from your experiences and do not repeat your mistakes.
Do your best. Do not give up!
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