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reply ** Re: Ex girlfriend's sexual addiction , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 12 Aug 2006 05:52
question Ex girlfriend's sexual addiction , ****** , 10 Aug 2006 22:51
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Ex girlfriend's sexual addiction
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Date: Thu, 10 Aug 2006 22:51:48 +0200
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Hello, I am extremely worried about my best friend, an ex girlfriend who I broke up with 2and a half years ago. I broke up with her and in the past 2 and a half years we've remained good friends. There was no sex between us for the full first year after the breakup but there has been about 12 instances of sex between us since up to about five weeks ago. She tells me about all the men she has slept with since our breakup and it has become alot almost if not in fact 30 or more in 2 and a half years. I found through her email that she is listed on several "dating" websites and is talking to men for hours online almost every night and giving them her name email and home phone number to contact her about having sex after her first instant messaging contact with them. She is seeing anywhere from 2 to 5 different men each and every week for about 3 months now with no apparant end in sight. She claims this is not abnormal behaviour and that she is not placing herself in any danger either with stds or my larger concern possible future physical abuse or worse I'm thinking kidnapping, rape or death. Am I right to be concerned and what way could I help her? She already admitted that a surprise 2 on 1 sexual situation she had with 2 men in May was not what she wanted but states she does not regret it happening and she is still seeing the man who orchestrated this as well of course as seeing many many many others. Please any help or insight you can offer will be so greatly appreciated.I've made copies of all that she is doing who she's seeing and what exactly is being said between them all and done and I'm seriously thinking of giving all this information (and it is extremely plentiful in just 9 days time) to her sister in order to see if she can help her. Obviously her sister has NO idea of my exs sexual activity level likely believes it to be normal.
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sat, 12 Aug 2006 05:52:07 +0200
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If you give that information to her sister behind her back, you will probably not have her as a friend anymore and will not be able to influence her. She is using sex as a drug and needs psychotherapy where she will learn other ways to handle her anxiety. Encourage her to see a psychotherapist.

Read more about sex addiction.

Read more about psychotherapy.




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