Me and my ex were together for 8 years, never married but had a child. We broke up during my pregnacy and have a very touch and go relationship due to thefact it was a bad breakup that ended with him being with someone else. Our daughter is now 11 months old and he is still in that relationship, which is very unstable. They fight alot and are constantly off and on. I have issues with him being responsible, paying his child support, and making grown-up decisions. I think that it is not a good idea to have my daughter involved in his unstable relationship and that he should keep his girlvfrien out of his and his daughter's relationship. I would be more comfortable if he would spend time with our daughter when he wasnt with her, but that is hard for him because they live together and he disagrees with me and doesn't want me to tell him what to do. I dont know what the right thing to do is and I dont want my daughter to get hurt from any of this. What should I do?