I feel sad

hellow Dr,

i met a guy who was 20 years older than me at least and i enjoyd his company alot, but because of the age differnce there was judgemnet in the eyes of people towards us when we walked together, i ofcourse didn;t end up feeling very good, i don't know if it was the fact that we were discriminated against, or if it was the possibility that he was actually being a bad person dating a girl in my age ( i was ok with it)..there was also this other guy who came and talked to me in a differnt language which i did not undersand, but i got the sense that he wasnted me to open my eyes and see the real intentions of the man i was with. plz tell me what to do, as you see i don't even know how to formulate a question for you, but you are teh expert and i feel very sad..plz guide me..

Learn to know this older guy. Do not care about other people's opinion if he is a good person and you want him in your live.

You got the feeling that this man might not be good for you. It has nothing to do with his age but with his personality.