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reply ** Re: Lost in jealousy , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 23 Jul 2006 08:13
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Lost in jealousy
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Date: Sat, 15 Jul 2006 22:04:14 +0200
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Hi, my name is Greg. I have or now had a girlfriend of 1 yr 1/2. We both love eachother deepley. A month or two ago i made a mistake and kissed another girl while i had been drinking. I lived up to my mistake and made things better with my girlfriend even after we had broken up b/c of the incident. Based on that situation, i have always felt that even though it felt as if things were going back to normal, she was going to try to get revenge. She now hangs out and talks to a lot more guy friends than before. I felt that there was one "guyfriend" who was more than a guy friend. I found myself looking through my girls cell phone looking at the recent calls and timers until she found out. She told me that these were just friends and she was getting tired of me not trusting her and constantly asking if there was anyone else significant. She then started to delete the recent calls from the list because she didnt want me thinking that there was anything going on and i then found myself checking to see how many entries in the recent calls list there were and asking her who did she delete. After a big fight about it, i decided to get over it and i promised her that i would never do it again. I didnt, but one day after a guy called her and left her a voicemail about how he misses talking to her, my jealousy began to build back up. This was when i called her phone and got into her voicemails and listened to her voicemails. After mistaking the voicemail as a "Significant Other" which in reality was the result of her friends prank calling this guy, I called her and began to call her a liar and unfaithful. She hasnt called me in days and now see how harmful jealousy can be to a fulfilling relationship. I have invaded her privacy and not believed her and now i feel i have ruined any hope for us to get back together again. A french philosopher once said:“Jealousy lives upon doubts. It becomes madness or ceases entirely as soon as we pass from doubt to certainty.” I believe in this quote 100% My question is What can i do next, any advice on anything would help me, I am in complete agony now knowing that my jealousy has ruined my hopes of getting back the girl of my dreams, the one who once thought of me as the man of her dreams and her christmas wish cometrue. So any advice pertaining to this issue would help me greatly. THank you and i hope my mail wasnt too long. Thank You, Sincerely Greg-Lost in Jealousy.
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sun, 23 Jul 2006 08:13:43 +0200
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Jealousy can be successfully treated by Cognitive psychotherapy, Gestalt therapy and SSRI medicine.




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