my dear what i can tell u is that , that guys he doesnt love u and he will never leave his wife for u, no matter u have a child with him, how long have he been promising u to leave his wife? do enjoy calling him at certain times and other times u dont have to call?times like when is with his family, ur just his mistress and ur helping him to comfort himself when his life is up sidesown. please do u baby and urself a baby, get a guy who loves u and who will move the mountain for u, having a baby with him wont change anything between u.take ur life to the nesxt level ,if he loves u he will follow, my dear i know is not easy it is hard, i have been there and i know the feeling, ur baby needs a father and ur the only one who can make sure that ur baby is fathered,being a father to a baby doesnt mean u have to be related by blood, u can be a sperm donor and not be the father, so move while ur baby is still youngs so u can find a the new father. why did u have to bear such crisis?u owe urself much, so make it up to urself and find happiness, dont be scared to be alone, ur baby needs ur well being more than he needs u. do whats best for both of u. u dont wana hurt another woman, or complicate ur life