I have been married for 4 years, together for 6. There has always been issues with porn in our relationship. When I find the porn and confront my husband he lies and says it is not his. I ask for intamacy and he tells me he is too tired but will then masturbate to porn. Im at the point where I dont even want to sleep in the same bed with him. I dont want him to touch me. I feel that I will never be adequate enough for him. Please help me
Why do you stay with him?
If you do want to save your marriage, competent councelling would be the only way to go forward. Probably a sex therapist may understand your husbands problems.