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reply Re: ** Re: Lost love in marriage , ****** , 07 Jun 2006 03:06
reply ** Re: Lost love in marriage , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 06 Jun 2006 20:36
plain Lost love in marriage , ****** , 05 Jun 2006 02:36
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Lost love in marriage
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Date: Mon, 5 Jun 2006 02:36:33 +0200
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I am married to a wonderful guy who does everything for me. I have three children with him and he is a good dad. Here is the problem though, I fell in love with another man, there has been no sexual contact with this other man. I want to leave my husband but dont know if I should. I married my husband when I was 18 and it was because I was pregnant, but now I want to "experience"life and think this is what I should do. can you give me a point in the right direction or some advice please.?
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** Re: Lost love in marriage (Reply to: 71328 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Tue, 6 Jun 2006 20:36:28 +0200
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Ask you husband for a "time out". You might be longing for your family after you have "experienced" life. As you have three children, you need to find a solution that is acceptable to all of you.



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Date: Wed, 7 Jun 2006 03:06:23 +0200
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I agree with the previous response - ask you husband for a "time-out". There is so much excitement but also a lot of danger in longing for someone new in your life. It is more difficult to make an existing relationship work but in the end you will have more certainty in your life. Your husband is after all the father of your children - would the other man love them as he does? I experienced three stepchildren in my life and although I tried to by a good mother, often resented the stress they put on the marriage.
Good luck.

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