Respected mam, i am a 17 yr old boy from india. i m good in studies.i hv been selected in engineering this year.but i m suffering from a problem which has eaten me frm inside.After my 10th grade two years ago, my parents send me to a nearby city to study as the educational atmosphere there was very good. Everything went fine the first yr , but the next year jst became a mess. Actually i was living in a paying guest house there with other students of my age.i have a little sister too. actually i m a vry decent boy and usually spent time studying or watching tv or sometimes playing.when i ws in the second yr in p.g. , i came to know frm one of my cousins that my sister was in an affair and i was shocked. my sister is in 7th grade i had never imagined in my wildest dreams that something like that could happen. everything changed after that. i started feeling inferior to everybody. i thought everybody was having a gf or bf except me. actually i hv been a sort of winner in my school days(academics, debates etc) so i jst could not swallow this fact.it started seeming to me that wrld had gone 5 yrs ahead leaving me behind. this complex slowly started entering every phase of my life. my studies started getting affected and i became reserved. i started feeling inferior to everybody and it seemed that i have no friends. its been an yr now for me with this problem and i m totally messed up . i sincerely request u to send an advice to me so that i cn move on with my life. i hv a month now for my college to start . i jst remain in my home and watch tv cos i dont think i hv any friend . i feel vry empty from inside
Contact a psychotherapist or a psychiatrist for help. 17 years old boys are not as popular among the opposite sex as 17 years old girls are. If you want a girlfriend, you should study hard to get a degree as many women prefer a well educated man. Also contact a society to get friends.