Why do i get so upset over my fiance staying in touch with her ex-boyfriend of 6 years? Her and i have known each other for about 7 years. I finally got the courage to ask her out about 6 years ago, but at the same time, she said that this guy had just asked her out. They had a bad realationship, and we dated for about 3 months when they broke up, but she decided that she wanted to get back together with him. Now we are set to be married in the summer and she says that i am acting immature and insecure about her still talking to this guy. Am i wrong? Please help me, i don't want to lose her over my jealousy.
If she cannot talk to whoever she wants, the marriage will be like a prison for her and you will be her prisonguard. Will that make you happy? Is that the kind of life you want to give her? See a psychotherapist to cure your jealousy.
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