Since i left for Japan my wife has been having an affair. she says it is because of the things i have done. but how can you just go and start a new relationship with someone else in less than a year. we have been married for 5yrs now. She expects me to continue helping her as far as bills and things. I am not going to do it if she has another man laying around he can do that for her not me. I need some advice on what i should do.