I am newly married and recently discovered that my husband was cheating on me during the 3-4 years of courtship we had. He slept with a lot of women and even contracted an STI. We had a very good relationship and I was always very proud of it. I thought that he was very honest to me, but now i am distraught. I confronted him and he says that all the sex was baseless, it was just to have some fun and fulfill his sexual desires.
I don't know what to do. We had a long-distance relationship and I was not always with him to monitor what he was doing. What are the chances that he will not do this again to me now? He said he won't, but do i trust him?
How important is he to you? Your choices are to leave him or to stay with him and fulfill his sexual desires, so he gets too tired to have fun with somebody else. I would leave, but it is your choice.